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Marriage and Family

From courtship and marriage to parenthood — building a home God's way

The home is God's own design. This path follows life's stages: what love is, singleness and courtship, marriage as covenant and as a school of holiness, the practice of love, and finally parenthood. Start wherever fits your life now; couples will gain most by reading together.
  1. The Four Loves
    C.S. Lewis
    First, what is love? Lewis distinguishes affection, friendship, eros and charity: every natural love is a good gift that must be renewed by God's love lest it go bad. The foundation for the books that follow.
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  2. Quest for Love
    Elisabeth Elliot
    For the single and the courting: Elisabeth Elliot answers real letters from readers — how to entrust love to God while waiting, keep purity amid longing, and find grace again after failure.
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  3. The Meaning of Marriage
    Timothy Keller with Kathy Keller
    Into marriage: a covenant, not merely a feeling, and a picture of the gospel — as Christ gave himself for the church, so spouses give themselves for each other. Good for premarital counselling and for long-married couples alike.
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  4. Sacred Marriage
    Gary Thomas
    Shaped by marriage: if God designed marriage to make us holy, its friction and disappointments become lessons in love, forgiveness and endurance. Especially for couples going through hard times.
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  5. The Five Love Languages
    Gary Chapman
    Learning to express love — the most practical book here. Discover your spouse's love language and love them in a way they can receive; take the quiz together and practise.
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  6. Shepherding a Child's Heart
    Tedd Tripp
    Finally, parenthood: behaviour flows from the heart, so the aim of discipline is not mere obedience but leading children to the gospel, with practical guidance for each stage.
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